Friday, February 6, 2015

It's been a very rough beginning to the new year

Right now, I can barely pen this.  I am doing my best to keep sane, not break down or forgo everything.  That said, I am trying to regain some sense of 'normal' around here, and one of those is to write a blog post or two.  I am working on our Asia Continent Box and the Van Gogh artist study one now, but need a few things to finish it before I can publish it.  Hopefully, I can get those done soonish. It will be posted on my main blog-Homeschooling on a Wing and a Prayer but I wanted to come here and let you all know what's been going on.

For those who do not follow me on FB-earlier in Jan. my dear brother passed away. He was only 46.   If it weren't for the strength of the Lord and all the prayer warriors out there, I doubt I would have been able to get through it.  It has been very hard for my parents, and especially for his two boys who are only 17 and 7.  This is going to be a very long road for all of us. And if that was not enough to blow our lives out of the water, my husband's mother fell prior to our going out of the country in November (still want to blog about that) so since then we have been trying to help care for her as well.  Since she is 81, her recovery has been slow.  Even though (thankfully) she didn't break anything (her should took the brunt of it) she did damage the ligaments, and it took a huge emotional toll on her. She is looking into assisted living nearby but until then my hubby and his sisters have been sharing the responsibility to make sure she is OK.  So then imagine being jet lagged and 6 hours off on time and being home only a few days prior to Thanksgiving.  We saw my brother then, and knew it wasn't good.  He was admitted to the hospital two weeks later.  Then three terrible weeks crawled by, and let me tell you there was not much Christmas spirit around here. Then on Jan. 8th he passed away. It was the longest stretch of hell I have ever experienced.  To add to this-a week prior to that, my friend's mother died.  Then just as we were starting to regain some footing a local family lost their 4 yr old son suddenly (he had special needs but this was unexpected) just a day later, my husband's good friend's dad suddenly died.  I say-ENOUGH!  This is just too much.  The sadness and loss is immense around here.  I forgot to add that my husband had some suspicious skin lesions removed.  During all of this chaos.  We found out just a week after the funeral that one was basal cell carcinoma.  So that means he will need to see a surgeon to get it completely removed, thankfully-the type of surgery he will receive is usually 99% successful in removing it.  That is coming up in March.
**I came back to add that ditty on my hubby-and while I type this, I am nursing a lovely mini-sprain I got today while leaving the library. I was just walking normal like and because the parking lot had grooves/crevices from age, it caught my left ankle...the very one I broke just a couple years ago.  I am praying it is just a few days of minor swelling and pain.  I can only laugh because otherwise I do believe I would start crying and never stop.  So much for a great beginning to the new year.  I pray the middle and end of it is awesome instead of crappy like these past few weeks.

Schooling has been minimal but I have managed to get a few subjects taught per day.  I have difficulty keeping thoughts in my head longer than a few minutes, so even the idea of workboxing (which I am sure would make my life easier in the long run) have fallen to the wayside.  Since the boy is a teen, I don't have to be so concerned since he can follow verbal instructions-well when I can get him to sit still long enough.  Did I mention that I really don't have a human child but an overgrown hummingbird for a kid?  He is a tough one to pin down.  Anyway-that is where we are at.

Please keep us, my parents/2 other brothers, my nephews, my mother in law (Lu), my friend and her family (Nancy), the Kroll family (adopted, they are a Reece's Rainbow family) and our friend John and his family in your prayers.  We all desperately need them.  Thanks







2 comments:

  1. I do not know you and will most probably never meet you but I am PRAYING! we are a long way from you in the uk but God hears our prayers wherever we are! I pray for a time of peace and that God would build a wall of protection around your family and loved ones so that you may all feel his gentle living arms around you holding you all together as this storm blows over!
    God bless you in all you do...
    With love from England!

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  2. My stupid phone erased a really long comment. Anyways sorry for your loss and all your going through.

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